How much do you like shorter people? Let’s be honest, it can be a bit awkward when you’re taller than the person you’re speaking to. It’s almost as if they are an entirely different species of human being. But we know that’s not true! Everyone is equal! They have feelings and emotions! And they need love too… right? Or maybe not. Maybe shorter people just make us feel super self-conscious about our height because we spend hours worrying about how short we are in comparison to them? Are shorter people just so used to interacting with other shorter people that they don’t know what to say to tall people? Do smaller people really think tall people are like aliens from another world or something? Do they think we smell funny or something? If so, then this article will help you come out of your shell around these vertically challenged individuals. Here are some helpful tips on how to talk to smaller people:
Be Presentable
Wear clothes that fit you properly. For example, don’t wear pants that are too long because you can’t be bothered to go get them hemmed. Wearing clothing that is too long just makes you look silly and disheveled. Another thing to keep in mind with clothing is that you shouldn’t wear anything that is too baggy. Baggy clothing makes you look even shorter. Additionally, don’t wear anything that is too tight around the waist. It makes your legs look shorter than they really are. Finally, consider wearing shoes with a small heel, like a pair of oxfords. It’ll make you look taller and more put together.
Talk To Short People Like You Would Talk To Anyone Else
Don’t be afraid to even bring up the topic of your height difference. Ask them how tall they are and if they have ever felt self-conscious about their height. Being genuine and open is often all it takes to break the ice with someone. Suggest hanging out outside, but don’t ask if they want to go to the park because everyone knows shorter people don’t like to play outside. Instead, suggest going to a coffee shop, a restaurant, or something else indoors where you don’t have to worry about being squished by a tree. Ask them if they have any hobbies. If they do, ask them what they are and if they would be interested in going to do them with you sometime.
Ask Them Questions About Themselves
Asking questions isn’t just helpful when you are trying to build a relationship with a taller person. It can be equally as effective when talking to a shorter person. Here are some sample questions that you can ask shorter people to help get the conversation started: – How long have you lived in this city? – Do you like living here? – What are some things you like to do around here? – Do you have any pets? What kind are they? – What’s your favorite book or movie? – Do you like coffee? Where do you like to go for coffee? – Do you ever go out to bars or clubs? – What are your long-term goals or dreams? – Do you play any sports?
Try a Handshake Instead of a Hug
This one might sound a little weird, but hear us out. Some shorter people feel really uncomfortable when you try to hug them. So if they look a bit apprehensive when you try to give them a hug, just offer them a handshake instead. They will appreciate the gesture and you don’t have to worry about coming off as creepy. Keep in mind that you don’t have to offer a handshake to everyone. Try it out on shorter people first to see how they react. If they seem to be really uncomfortable with the handshake, then don’t try to hug them either.
Try Compliments… Maybe?
Everyone likes compliments, but people are often unsure as to how to compliment shorter people. You don’t want to make them feel like you are pitying them or trying to sound patronizing. However, you can try complimenting their style, their hair, or their eyes. For example, instead of saying, “You’re really short!” you could say, “You have beautiful eyes!” or “Your hair is awesome!” This will show them that you are not just saying it to be nice. It’s something you genuinely believe. Keep in mind that shorter people have the same insecurities as taller people. They might be self-conscious about their height too. You can help make them feel better about themselves by complimenting something about them that you genuinely like or admire.
Now go out there and be the face of tall people everywhere!
You can’t change your height, so why not embrace it and make the best of it? Tall people have their own challenges in life, so we need your help to make our lives a little bit easier. Be friendly and welcoming to shorter people and let them know that they are just as important as anyone else. Let them know that they have a place in this world. Together, we can make the world a better place for everyone, regardless of their height. Now go out there and make some new shorter friends! And don’t forget to let us know how it goes in the comments below!